tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25857975.post7927984021534737404..comments2022-03-27T19:12:44.355+10:30Comments on Kazz's Journey: Part Two !kazzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10134965977050855209noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25857975.post-67663906050883944602009-04-21T21:35:00.000+09:302009-04-21T21:35:00.000+09:30Yay you.
Love NYay you.<br /><br />Love NShrinking Tardiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10383726486642280700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25857975.post-67069609207665170992009-04-21T20:59:00.000+09:302009-04-21T20:59:00.000+09:30Kazz, i've just caught up with your posts of the l...Kazz, i've just caught up with your posts of the last few days!<br /><br />I've been where you are now, I can relate to everything you feel and I truly believe that it's why i'm back up over 120kgs again instead of being only grams away from double digits like I was almost 5 years ago.<br /><br />The problem with excess weight is that it provides us with a big comfort zone - breaking through that is scary and tough but slowly we have to do it. You've done that in so many ways, by forcing yourself to go out more, meeting new people, going back to the gym etc etc<br /><br />But your mindset needs to catch up - you talk about success like you're trying to succeed, mate, you already have succeeded - you don't lose 40 odd kilos without being successful. I think you need to give yourself credit for that and stop sometimes and reflect on how far you've come rather than always looking at how much further you have to go.<br /><br />I've seen massive changes in you, the way you look, the pride you take in your appearance, your attitude and even your confidence in your abilities in what you're achieving.<br /><br />All this is overwhelming to you because like you said you're not used to the attention but know that people are commenting and noticing out of admiration. You're taking control of your life and bringing out the person lying beneath the fat and she's coming out because out is where she belongs.<br /><br />It will get easier Kazz, i'm always here if you ever need to talk, will get back to you soon about a date for lunch.Taniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11314146110990484008noreply@blogger.com